I always get a little gooshy around this time of year. With the holidays upon us, I can’t help but reflect on past years. I have much to be thankful for, and even though I’m grateful most of the time, the holiday season deepens the appreciation somehow. A cultural thing I guess.<\/p>\n
After turning 18, I entered into \u201cparty hearty\u201d mode. That lasted for 17 years… what began as \u201chaving fun\u201d evolved into fun plus problems, and then finally my partying habits produced very little fun but very large problems. Considering all the \u201cfun\u201d I had literally poisoning myself, I’m pretty lucky to be alive, let alone happy and healthy. Amazing how much better life got after I was finally willing to grow up!!<\/p>\n
These days, I still \u201cparty hearty,\u201d but it has absolutely nothing to do with intoxicants. Nope, none of that monkey business anymore. Instead, sharing a meal with close friends; maybe watching a movie with them, now those <\/b><\/i>are good times. And of course with all these good times, very happy memories are made.<\/p>\n
Thanksgiving kicks off a season of remembering too. I once heard it said that the best way to honor the dead is to love the living. Another way, in my book anyway, is to relate a story about a lost loved one that makes others smile. One of my favorite stories I tell around this time of year is when our dear friend Lew and his Beautiful Wife came over for what turned out to be his last Thanksgiving on this Earth. It was my turn to make Thanksgiving dinner, and Lew noticed I was cooking Brussels sprouts.<\/p>\n
\u201cOh Ken! I see you’re making Brussels sprouts,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah Lew, you like Brussels sprouts?\u201d I replied,<\/p>\n
\u201cF*&% NO!!<\/b>\u201d he exclaimed; at which point we all burst into laughter.<\/p>\n
We’ve had Thanksgiving at his Beautiful Wife’s house every year since then, and every year she’d make \u201cF.N. Brussels Sprouts\u201d in honor of her dear departed hubby. We use the initials because there are grandchildren, you see.\u00a0 This year, however, because of COVID, we’ve agreed that it might not be too safe to dine at our Beautiful Friend’s house.\u00a0 Holy POOP I hate this damn virus!!\u00a0 Hopefully next year we can resume the tradition.<\/p>\n
Another dear departed friend is our friend Tommy, who passed away all too suddenly a few years ago.\u00a0 He too had a marvelous sense of humor, and I’ve been honoring his memory thusly:<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you call a deer with no eyes?\u201d he asked,<\/p>\n
\u201cI give up,\u201d I said,<\/p>\n
\u201cNo eye deer!!\u201d he chuckled; and continued: \u201chow about a deer with no eyes and no legs?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDunno,\u201d I smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cStill <\/b><\/i>no eye deer!!\u201d And of course the grand finale: \u201cHow about a deer with no eyes, no legs, and no genitalia?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cStill no f*&%ing eye deer!!\u201d and of course we both laughed. Naturally only \u201cbig people\u201d get to hear the last part of the joke, and I always ask permission before telling the naughty part.<\/p>\n
As I relate these stories, my memories of other loved ones lost over the years flood into my brain. Mom and Dad, grandparents, even cousins… and of course friends and yes, even children of friends. These memories, coupled with all those mushy holiday movies, will often make my eyes leak at the drop of a hat. Memories and gratitude. That’s what slams home the holidays for me. I’m so doggoned fortunate it’s ridiculous.\u00a0 Thank you God for everything.<\/p>\n
I sincerely hope all of you have a safe and enjoyable Thanksgiving.\u00a0 And if you are able, please donate to your favorite charity so they can help those who are struggling.<\/p>\n
Now for the silly video.\u00a0 This is an oldie but a goodie from Tex Avery about a turkey who outfoxed the hunter; but they both got it in the end…<\/p>\n